Saturday was pissed.
Why? All because Adel 'refused' to sleep and kept playing.
Adel was sick last Thursday and Friday because of high fever and confined at home.
I was too tired and took a nap. When I woke up and saw her playing, I was not happy already. Then daddy say she dun wan to sleep. Hello when there is temptation, how do you expect her to sleep?
Then i bring the crying adel to balcony (her naughty corner) and shut the door. Adel was crying away.
FIL say don't do that etc and where got mother like that. I nearly rebuke him and
tell him to shut up. I am here disciplining my child.
She had took medication that can cause drowsiness and since she was sick she should rest more to recover. Otherwise why would a doctor gives MC for? It is to rest isn't it? I just carried her next to the room, shut the door, gives her milk and medication. Within 15mins she slept.
Just walked out of the room and announced loudly that she is fast asleep with no hassel.
DO NOT take me as an idiot who knows nothing of taking care of infants and toddlers? Afterall I have experience in taking care of my 3 younger sisters.
Why? All because Adel 'refused' to sleep and kept playing.
Adel was sick last Thursday and Friday because of high fever and confined at home.
I was too tired and took a nap. When I woke up and saw her playing, I was not happy already. Then daddy say she dun wan to sleep. Hello when there is temptation, how do you expect her to sleep?
Then i bring the crying adel to balcony (her naughty corner) and shut the door. Adel was crying away.
FIL say don't do that etc and where got mother like that. I nearly rebuke him and
tell him to shut up. I am here disciplining my child.
She had took medication that can cause drowsiness and since she was sick she should rest more to recover. Otherwise why would a doctor gives MC for? It is to rest isn't it? I just carried her next to the room, shut the door, gives her milk and medication. Within 15mins she slept.
Just walked out of the room and announced loudly that she is fast asleep with no hassel.
DO NOT take me as an idiot who knows nothing of taking care of infants and toddlers? Afterall I have experience in taking care of my 3 younger sisters.
You only have theory from books and not hands-on so you do not have the right to say me!
DO NOT tell me to listen to your parents as they do not know how to raise a kid on their own as well. You were just taken care of by your grandmother when young.
Whoever in the right mind will tell someone having constipation to have mandarin orange? Whoever in the right mind will say that coconut is heaty (if so, I do not have to wait till last trimester then can take coconut juice as it IS cooling)?
When the hell did I ever give junk food to my child?
Who was the one who had to attend to the sick child with no complains?
Who was the one who had to follow the child schedule and entertained them, forgoing the much needed rest?
Was it too much to ask for help especially I am not tired easily?
Was it a mistake to be pregnant and still expect to take on alot of the responsibility?
If you think by helping me to ease the load is too much to ask for, then tell me earlier and maybe we should not have another child?
Quoted from a friend:
"Adel still need ard 14hrs sleep daily
if can nap let her lor, unless outside then no chioce.
why children need sleep
sleeping is the only time our body repair itself and generate cell growth etc.
once awake our body start dying etc
so children have growth spur specially children below 5yrs old, (some say 3yrs old i say 5yrs)
they need the sleep to rebiuld and grow. otherwise growth will be slower among others"
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