Update from Girls Fight

Teacher Kelly just called me to give me an account of what happen.

Based on her observation for the past few weeks, she had observed that Adel had wanted to hold Candice hands. Candice on the other hand would often brushed her aside to stay away from Adel.
Teacher Kelly had observed on the day that both girls fought, Adel wanted to hold Candice's hand as usual but was brushed off. Adel went next to snuggle close to her with Candice trying to break free away from Adel. Thus both girls started to start pushing and shoving. Teacher Kelly called the girls aside and ask what happen. After understanding what happened she told the girls that they cannot play together if they still continued and the girls just looked apologetic and hugged each other.

She went on to further understand from Candice's parents on Candice's behavoiur. It seemed that Candice has been asked to give in to her brother at home. Thus this amounted to her frastration and she vent it out in school.

Teacher Kelly went on to feedback that Adel was gentle by nature. Even to the most naughty children in the class, Adel would go up to the child and say ' you are naughty' and then run away. Her statement really makes me want to laugh at my little girl.

As a mother, I would need to reflect on this as well.
A lot of times, we have been asking Adel to give in to her brother as well. We would sometimes forgot that our older child needs some assurance and love too.